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Why swing?
There are as many reasons for swinging, as there are people involved in the
swinging scene.
The best reason for swinging is to meet new people, have fun with them and
hopefully improve your sex life with your normal partner. A large part of the
fun of swinging is the conversations between partners anticipating meeting
someone new, and then talking about the experience after the meet. Most couples
find that occasionally meeting other people to play greatly improves their own
sex life.
Swinging by couples who have a stable relationship brings extra enjoyment
into the relationship.
Why Not Swing?
- Swinging by couples whose relationship is fragile is a dangerous game,
as it is more likely to exacerbate the problems in the relationship than to
help. We strongly advise couples who are having problems with their marriage
to sort those problems before they get involved in the swinging scene.
- religious reasons: This is a very shaky area, as there are a large
number of priests, rabbis, mullahs, involved in swinging, though most
conceal the fact. In the UK, most swinging in the 70`s was carried out in
the priests house on a Saturday night.
- It's regarded as dirty: In the UK, over 25% of the adult population is
either involved in, or wants to be involved in, the swinging scene.
- Fear of being "outed": The chances of being outed by other swingers is
low, as to reveal the fact that you are s swinger, they have to reveal the
fact that they are also.
- Legal reasons: Swinging is completely legal in Spain and the UK.
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